Some
people may find solitude a comforting state to spend their entire
life, avoiding the unnecessary inconveniences that mingling with
other individuals in a daily basis can be considered a nuisance.
There are people who prefer to be alone and don't want to be involved
in social practices that can be considered irrelevant in life, mostly
living an introverted point of view that satisfies their self esteem,
but all the more so, improves their capacity to think more clearly
that leads to better decision making. Introverts are people who
mainly live a solitary world of identifying themselves with the
blissful existence of living inside their own state of mind, detached
from the chaotic chasms of life's somewhat and often times, absurd
profanities.
Introverts
are mostly individuals that have come into terms with the reality of
life and the truthfulness of social awareness and implicated
adherence to social order. Going about one's daily tasks without the
cumbersome intangible idiocy of some people that can be considered a
liability in ones pursuit of a peaceful and stress free daily
existence is more than what people with this kind of mental aptitude
prefer. Mostly creative logical thinkers, introverts seldom “come
out and play” despite being sociably coherent amongst their circle
of acquaintances, work wise. They are the kind of individuals who
find pleasure in being alone and prefer to be that way, spending most
of their time dwelling on work.
Though
stereotypically being designated as “geeks”, not all aspect of
introversion can be addressed as such, most of the time. Regardless
of such social branding, introverts are one of the most socially
active people in the world, involving themselves in social media. Not
to be given the wrong aspect of social description, introverts are
more comfortable in dealing with society at a distance, not getting
themselves attached to any aspect of ideologies or advocacies besides
their own. Loneliness is a comfort zone to some but for others, it is
a torment that can lead to mental anguish in the sense of borderline
insanity.
The
human specie is a social organism that tends to exist with the need
for longing and attention. |It is a fact that has existed since our
conception in this world. The need to be with someone seems to be the
most insatiable instinctive drive on our psychological aspects as
human beings that we give it more importance than all other social
values. The natural comforting need to mingle among others is a
natural instinct directly attributed to social propagation. The human
need to eventually interact and divulge in society can not be
disregarded as it is built in our genes. Despite all other social
deviations founded on norms and morality, ideologies and social
conditionings, we, as humans need other humans to satisfy our needs
and urges, amongst ourselves.
The
human touch is a very fascinating principle that involves the basic
need to reach out and make physical contact to an individual.
Regardless of any gender, age or diversified social inclinations, we
long to be touched, in more ways than one. A good example would that
be between a man and a woman, that involve the basic principle of
touch. Despite any social implications of norms and practices,
touching indicates longing or wanting as it is a motivational body
language that yearns desire. A woman who gently puts her hand behind
a man's back and gives it a gentle stroke is a clear sign of desire,
despite age and social standings. It is viewed more as a sign of
sexual want and is a natural instinct for both sexes.
Another
aspect of social perspective in the light of this is the fear of
solitude. Most people struggle for most of their lives try to fit
into society and the need to gain respect from others. Delving into
social acceptance for most of their lives, these individuals are the
extroverts. Living a mostly hedonistic way of life that involve in
the pursue of worldly pleasures. A good example of this would be that
of former NBA superstar Dennis Rodman, who adheres to this kind of
lifestyle. Oftentimes associated with opulence, hedonists are the
real party animals.
The
stark comparison can be considerably incremental to put conclusion
between introverts and extroverts, as to put a generalization between
the two. Leaving us to think for ourselves on who truly is the most
lonely one considering all of these rational evaluations. Loneliness
is one of the most frustrating sates of human mentality one could
deal with. It is often times a factor that leads to depression that
can imbalance the brain, leading to mental deterioration. The need to
want and the want to need go together hand in hand in completing the
human psyche as loneliness is a psychological disorder.
This
reminds me of that old song from the group “America”, entitled,
“Lonely People”, which goes with the line...”look at all the
lonely people...thinking that life has passed them by”. A more apt
word would that be of contentedness in your human existence. Asking
for something that society would not give you for your own
satisfaction is indeed a lonely thought even though you have come to
a resolute acceptance that you are deemed to stay alone for the
remaining of your entire life. It is a sad thought to ponder upon,
indeed, Though happiness should never be this complicated from the
start. It was us that has put the complications in life.