Why People Fail In Life?

“Most successful people in the world are what they are now because they learned to find their own uniqueness amidst the commonality from the rest of the world, setting them apart from everyone else. Success means seeing the things that other people failed to see and taking advantage of that knowledge, making it work for them, enabling them to reach their goals and aspirations in life.”

“Why Are There Very Few Successful People in the World?”

Have you ever wondered why there are very few successful people in the world, limited only to a handful of individuals that comprise of just about 1% of the total population of this planet? That is because 1% of these individuals have a unique way of overcoming the obstacles in their lives, and though most of us would like to do the same, it is only these individuals that made a difference. How you may ask? Well, they managed to find a separate path towards their life goals, and the road that leads to their success is a secret path hidden from the rest of the world, and only a few people discover that road which is only travelled by a few.

While the rest of the world travels on a path set by what most people perceive as the only way towards achieving your success, that road is littered with stumbling blocks and obstacles which slow you down from attaining your dreams in life, to put it in a more detailed perspective, it is a road that you have to struggle traversing, along with other people that could either block you or throw you off your path! You might say to yourself that that these small number of successful people are not entirely unique in a way because there are a lot of successful people in the world today that account as a “small common minority”. Maybe so, but that does not discard the fact that their success is uncommon when they had to struggle with attaining it in the first place, in fact, they all started out the same like you and me.

So how did they become so different from the rest of us? The answer is “awareness”, they were awoken to the truth of their existence in relation to the world around them. They came to realize that most people who struggle with the hardships in life all followed the same rules that were set down in front of them, and were never taught to ask why they had to follow those rules given to them, nor were they ever been taught the true meaning of how to fully optimise their potential for their own benefit. As far as most people are concerned, the rules in life were put there to maintain order, but it is also those same rules and standards that what most people find as a hindrance, limiting what they can do to improve their current standing in life. Before you can even start to begin to copy what these successful people did to get to where they are, you should be aware that not everything that they did in order to achieve their success can be applicable to your own life, maybe just a few aspects, but not entirely as a whole.

“Your Own Potential Awakening”

Most people think that by imitating the patterns of successful people, whether that be their ability to attract success into their lives, may that be financial, well being or even love, one has to keep in mind that you need to wake up to the reality of who you really are. You need to determine your “inner needs” and discover your real inner being so you can plan a better way of overcoming your most common stumbling blocks in life. Individuation is a process in which you can easily discover the hidden truth about yourself, your fears and doubts, so you can address these issues and settle down into accepting your true self, without judgement and guilt.

Once you open up to the reality of who you really are, you can then start working around solutions to improve your life in an introspective point of view. You also have to be aware that when you have decided to take on the path towards your own individuation awakening, there are some things that you will discover about yourself, particularly those deeply seated fears and regrets that you subconsciously have hidden away inside yourself. These are the primary reason why your life has slowed you down despite of all of your struggles to do your best in improving your it.

It is time that you take control of your own destiny and come out of your reclusive inner shell. Most people are inclined to believe that a person is destined to stay in the place where they were born until the time that they leave this world. This is the same negative mentality that leads people into stagnation, leaving their entire destiny to the mercy of fate, which is simply just a lame excuse of not being able to go beyond the point of tapping into their full potential. And where does road lead to? Would you just let yourself be driven into a path that has been carved out by others who had been on that same road that leads to a mediocre, unfulfilled life without knowing that there is an alternative route which leads to abundance and plenty?

Most people spend their lives, sleeping off the opportunity of being able gain more from what life can actually offer them because they were not fortunate enough to have discovered that life has a lot of hidden secrets that are hiding in plain sight. Why do most people don’t see their potential while others have managed to crawl out of their former lives and took on the world with a renewed belief that they can achieve anything that they put their mind into. If successful people can do it, there is no doubt that you can do it as well as they can, but you have to trudge a different path in comparison to what they did because you need to find your unique and true self to be able to find the perfect path that has no boundaries and obstacles.

“Finding The Hidden Path to Your Own Success”

Is there really such a path, and if so, why do most people fail to see it? And when people finally decide to change their lives for the better, they tend to turn to the success stories of other people, which can often lead to disappointments rather than success. Why you may ask? Because each individual’s success comes from discovering their hidden talents along with their unique way of understanding their life’s obstacles since each of us has their own individual weaknesses and strengths. Simply put, one person’s weakness may be another person’s strengths and copying another person’s success methods may look like a general idea of being able to solve your own predicaments in life, but may not be the most practical way for you to follow suit.

The reason is that each individual has different backgrounds in life, added to this, we all have different core beliefs and influences in which we base our assumptions of life with. If you are not able to differentiate one thing from another beyond their similarity, you will eventually be lead into a dead end in life. Michaelangelo is not Pablo Picasso and not all painters have the same style of brush stroke, nor do they use the same type of colour combination.

What does this all have to do with being able to attract success and abundance into your life? You may see successful people the way they are right now, riding on their accomplishments in life, they too dreamed of becoming successful themselves when they started out as well and may had ideas of copying the methods of other people before them, but they did not, especially the self-made millionaires. Unless you were blessedly born into a very convenient and comfortable life, chances are that we all have to start at the very bottom of our existence in this life of ours, no one to throw us a line to pull ourselves above the current hardships that we are experiencing with our life.

And as far as society is concerned, you can either hang by a line, dangling while others pass you by on the way up or you can swing to a ledge and re-evaluate the choices that you are about to make in your life. As far as all of us are concerned, life offers a fair start for everyone and it is only in the first part of life that we struggle to find our true path towards success and abundance. What distracts us from being able to clearly see the road ahead are the distracting signs along the way, and when you let yourself get distracted, even just for a fraction of a second, you can easily drive off into a ditch on the side of the road. These metaphorical distractions are the different beliefs that were taught to us by other people, beliefs that we adapted into our lives, including the negative mindset that we grew accustomed to which became the anchors that hold us in our current situation.

“If The Shoe Fits: One Man’s Success is Another Man’s Burden”

Why is it that even though that we try to do the best that we possibly can in our life to improve the way we live, we always find ourselves spiralling back down the way where we started? Haven't you noticed the way people often times thinking that they were invulnerable to what is happening to the world around them? That they thought nothing can pull them down from their seemingly secured state in life that they are suddenly caught by surprise, falling off their balance and landing head first into a much more squalid situation than before?

Because they became too complacent with what they have achieved and earned with regard to success and abundance, thinking that those two things will never ever be taken away from them. They were wrong to think that way because most people think of the same way, similar to those stories that you heard of people winning the lottery and losing it all in just one short moment. Haven’t you noticed that when things are handed down to you, you tend to give lesser value to it because you do not know how much that thing meant to the other person that gave you that.

You eventually think less of it and eventually shoving it to a corner, even disregarding it because you did not exert any effort in acquiring it, because you just received it. This goes the same with success and abundance, whether that be financial, personal or even your desire for self-improvement and well being, earning those things should be through your own initiative because you will understand the difficulties of undergoing some personal changes which need some sacrifice on your part to be able to attain it. This is where most people find difficulty in understanding, the very first important step in being able to improve your understanding on what is happening around you is not by looking at other people’s success as a basis for your own success, but by looking deep inside of yourself.

That’s right, it is not about what you see, but what you overlooked, it has always been in front of you, staring back at you in the mirror, it is you. Do you really want to know why people fail with their life goals, particularly their goals in attaining success and abundance? It is because they are often times being unwittingly mislead to believe that what other people do is the only way to get to where they want to go in life.

Well sure it works, in principle that is, but do you think that one man’s shoes will fit another? If the other person has walked in that same shoe and has brought them to where they are, they have surely felt some sort of discomfort all throughout their journey. Now imagine you being handed down that same shoe for you to walk on towards achieving your goals in life, unless you have the same shoe size as the other person, which in most cases you won’t. You will probably be feeling a greater amount of discomfort, more than the other person that originally used that same shoe towards their journey to their own success.

“Life in Itself is Benign: We Are All Given a Fair Chance To Begin With”

Life does not “punish” people to begin with, it is people that bring about their hardships and suffering to themselves. Stop blaming your current circumstance and climb out of that pathetic hole that your trapped in. There is no such thing as “bad luck” or “good luck” to begin with, only people that make good or bad decisions that eventually lead them into a state of which they either love and cherish their life or blame themselves for their foreboding burdens!

There are people born into privilege and people that wish to be in that same situation, but eventually had been thrown down into a pit of hurt and agony, who can only see the world through a monochrome spectrum of disappointment on how their life turned out to be. Most people blame their nurturing, their circumstances and how they weren’t fortunate enough to be so lucky as others. Maybe not fortunate enough to grow up in a financially secured family or even been allowed to experience the love and nurturing of an emotionally functioning family.

For most of us, we often get the impression that life is not fair, that it has no balance, that it leans towards and fall favour to the privileged few and since we were given the idea that this is a fact, it causes us to loose hope in it’s entirety. We silently retire ourselves to the thought that we will never be able to achieve what most successful people have because the world closes down all possibilities of being able to live out our dreams and aspirations. This result in people living out their remaining days as the same as how they started.

True that all of us have big dreams of making it into the world, either we become successful and earn the respect of others through that or we stay behind the shadow of our doubts, secluding us from trying out our hand at becoming successful even in the most smallest possible way. Life is more than fair, it is actually neutral and does not care who or what we are. It doesn’t care if you’re rich or poor and has given us the same opportunities as it had with other people even way before we came about into our own time. It gives everything a fair chance of living our lives to the most of what we can make of it.

The real problem lies in people, we, us and you, because we fail to see the opportunities that come to us for the sole reason that we fail to recognize them. All of experiences that you had gone through in life has lead you to develop a blockage in your inner mind, the kind of blockage that clouts your rational thinking, making you make bad and distasteful decisions in your life that you eventually regret and suffer in the end. Yes, that’s right, you have been closed off from your true divine purpose in life which is to fulfil your dreams and goals in life, to live to the utmost of your heart’s content and to take hold of your own destiny.

“Great and Wonderful Things from the People that You Least Expected!”

Believe it or not, some of the world’s most life changing ideas were conceptualized by the people that came from small and humbling beginnings. Does this remind you of anyone you know in particular? These are the common people, the one’s that have their own dreams in life that are working very hard just to get their feet out of the door and into the world, taking on the adversities that they might find along the way. A lot of people have their own stories of hardships to tell, some even have bad experiences that they found difficult to overcome, but they eventually do in the end that it transformed their life into something different.