“Most
successful people in the world are what they are now because they
learned to find their own uniqueness amidst the commonality from the
rest of the world, setting them apart from everyone else. Success
means seeing the things that other people failed to see and taking
advantage of that knowledge, making it work for them, enabling them
to reach their goals and aspirations in life.”
“Why Are There
Very Few Successful People in the World?”
Have
you ever wondered why there are very few successful people in the
world, limited only to a handful of individuals that comprise of just
about 1% of the total population of this planet? That is because 1%
of these individuals have a unique way of overcoming the obstacles in
their lives, and though most of us would like to do the same, it is
only these individuals that made a difference. How you may ask? Well,
they managed to find a separate path towards their life goals, and
the road that leads to their success is a secret path hidden from the
rest of the world, and only a few people discover that road which is
only travelled by a few.
While
the rest of the world travels on a path set by what most people
perceive as the only way towards achieving your success, that road is
littered with stumbling blocks and obstacles which slow you down from
attaining your dreams in life, to put it in a more detailed
perspective, it is a road that you have to struggle traversing, along
with other people that could either block you or throw you off your
path! You might say to yourself that that these small number of
successful people are not entirely unique in a way because there are
a lot of successful people in the world today that account as a
“small common minority”. Maybe so, but that does not discard the
fact that their success is uncommon when they had to struggle with
attaining it in the first place, in fact, they all started out the
same like you and me.
So
how did they become so different from the rest of us? The answer is
“awareness”, they were awoken to the truth of their existence in
relation to the world around them. They came to realize that most
people who struggle with the hardships in life all followed the same
rules that were set down in front of them, and were never taught to
ask why they had to follow those rules given to them, nor were they
ever been taught the true meaning of how to fully optimise their
potential for their own benefit. As far as most people are concerned,
the rules in life were put there to maintain order, but it is also
those same rules and standards that what most people find as a
hindrance, limiting what they can do to improve their current
standing in life. Before you can even start to begin to copy what
these successful people did to get to where they are, you should be
aware that not everything that they did in order to achieve their
success can be applicable to your own life, maybe just a few aspects,
but not entirely as a whole.
“Your
Own Potential Awakening”
Most
people think that by imitating the patterns of successful people,
whether that be their ability to attract success into their lives,
may that be financial, well being or even love, one has to keep in
mind that you need to wake up to the reality of who you really are.
You need to determine your “inner needs” and discover your real
inner being so you can plan a better way of overcoming your most
common stumbling blocks in life. Individuation is a process in which
you can easily discover the hidden truth about yourself, your fears
and doubts, so you can address these issues and settle down into
accepting your true self, without judgement and guilt.
Once
you open up to the reality of who you really are, you can then start
working around solutions to improve your life in an introspective
point of view. You also have to be aware that when you have decided
to take on the path towards your own individuation awakening, there
are some things that you will discover about yourself, particularly
those deeply seated fears and regrets that you subconsciously have
hidden away inside yourself. These are the primary reason why your
life has slowed you down despite of all of your struggles to do your
best in improving your it.
It
is time that you take control of your own destiny and come out of
your reclusive inner shell. Most people are inclined to believe that
a person is destined to stay in the place where they were born until
the time that they leave this world. This is the same negative
mentality that leads people into stagnation, leaving their entire
destiny to the mercy of fate, which is simply just a lame excuse of
not being able to go beyond the point of tapping into their full
potential. And where does road lead to? Would you just let yourself
be driven into a path that has been carved out by others who had been
on that same road that leads to a mediocre, unfulfilled life without
knowing that there is an alternative route which leads to abundance
and plenty?
Most
people spend their lives, sleeping off the opportunity of being able
gain more from what life can actually offer them because they were
not fortunate enough to have discovered that life has a lot of hidden
secrets that are hiding in plain sight. Why do most people don’t
see their potential while others have managed to crawl out of their
former lives and took on the world with a renewed belief that they
can achieve anything that they put their mind into. If successful
people can do it, there is no doubt that you can do it as well as
they can, but you have to trudge a different path in comparison to
what they did because you need to find your unique and true self to
be able to find the perfect path that has no boundaries and
obstacles.
“Finding
The Hidden Path to Your Own Success”
Is
there really such a path, and if so, why do most people fail to see
it? And when people finally decide to change their lives for the
better, they tend to turn to the success stories of other people,
which can often lead to disappointments rather than success. Why you
may ask? Because each individual’s success comes from discovering
their hidden talents along with their unique way of understanding
their life’s obstacles since each of us has their own individual
weaknesses and strengths. Simply put, one person’s weakness may be
another person’s strengths and copying another person’s success
methods may look like a general idea of being able to solve your own
predicaments in life, but may not be the most practical way for you
to follow suit.
The
reason is that each individual has different backgrounds in life,
added to this, we all have different core beliefs and influences in
which we base our assumptions of life with. If you are not able to
differentiate one thing from another beyond their similarity, you
will eventually be lead into a dead end in life. Michaelangelo is not
Pablo Picasso and not all painters have the same style of brush
stroke, nor do they use the same type of colour combination.
What
does this all have to do with being able to attract success and
abundance into your life? You may see successful people the way they
are right now, riding on their accomplishments in life, they too
dreamed of becoming successful themselves when they started out as
well and may had ideas of copying the methods of other people before
them, but they did not, especially the self-made millionaires. Unless
you were blessedly born into a very convenient and comfortable life,
chances are that we all have to start at the very bottom of our
existence in this life of ours, no one to throw us a line to pull
ourselves above the current hardships that we are experiencing with
our life.
And
as far as society is concerned, you can either hang by a line,
dangling while others pass you by on the way up or you can swing to a
ledge and re-evaluate the choices that you are about to make in your
life. As far as all of us are concerned, life offers a fair start for
everyone and it is only in the first part of life that we struggle to
find our true path towards success and abundance. What distracts us
from being able to clearly see the road ahead are the distracting
signs along the way, and when you let yourself get distracted, even
just for a fraction of a second, you can easily drive off into a
ditch on the side of the road. These metaphorical distractions are
the different beliefs that were taught to us by other people, beliefs
that we adapted into our lives, including the negative mindset that
we grew accustomed to which became the anchors that hold us in our
current situation.
“If
The Shoe Fits: One Man’s Success is Another Man’s Burden”
Why
is it that even though that we try to do the best that we possibly
can in our life to improve the way we live, we always find ourselves
spiralling back down the way where we started? Haven't you noticed
the way people often times thinking that they were invulnerable to
what is happening to the world around them? That they thought nothing
can pull them down from their seemingly secured state in life that
they are suddenly caught by surprise, falling off their balance and
landing head first into a much more squalid situation than before?
Because
they became too complacent with what they have achieved and earned
with regard to success and abundance, thinking that those two things
will never ever be taken away from them. They were wrong to think
that way because most people think of the same way, similar to those
stories that you heard of people winning the lottery and losing it
all in just one short moment. Haven’t you noticed that when things
are handed down to you, you tend to give lesser value to it because
you do not know how much that thing meant to the other person that
gave you that.
You
eventually think less of it and eventually shoving it to a corner,
even disregarding it because you did not exert any effort in
acquiring it, because you just received it. This goes the same with
success and abundance, whether that be financial, personal or even
your desire for self-improvement and well being, earning those things
should be through your own initiative because you will understand the
difficulties of undergoing some personal changes which need some
sacrifice on your part to be able to attain it. This is where most
people find difficulty in understanding, the very first important
step in being able to improve your understanding on what is happening
around you is not by looking at other people’s success as a basis
for your own success, but by looking deep inside of yourself.
That’s
right, it is not about what you see, but what you overlooked, it has
always been in front of you, staring back at you in the mirror, it is
you. Do you really want to know why people fail with their life
goals, particularly their goals in attaining success and abundance?
It is because they are often times being unwittingly mislead to
believe that what other people do is the only way to get to where
they want to go in life.
Well
sure it works, in principle that is, but do you think that one man’s
shoes will fit another? If the other person has walked in that same
shoe and has brought them to where they are, they have surely felt
some sort of discomfort all throughout their journey. Now imagine you
being handed down that same shoe for you to walk on towards achieving
your goals in life, unless you have the same shoe size as the other
person, which in most cases you won’t. You will probably be feeling
a greater amount of discomfort, more than the other person that
originally used that same shoe towards their journey to their own
success.
“Life
in Itself is Benign: We Are All Given a Fair Chance To Begin With”
Life
does not “punish” people to begin with, it is people that bring
about their hardships and suffering to themselves. Stop blaming your
current circumstance and climb out of that pathetic hole that your
trapped in. There is no such thing as “bad luck” or “good luck”
to begin with, only people that make good or bad decisions that
eventually lead them into a state of which they either love and
cherish their life or blame themselves for their foreboding burdens!
There
are people born into privilege and people that wish to be in that
same situation, but eventually had been thrown down into a pit of
hurt and agony, who can only see the world through a monochrome
spectrum of disappointment on how their life turned out to be. Most
people blame their nurturing, their circumstances and how they
weren’t fortunate enough to be so lucky as others. Maybe not
fortunate enough to grow up in a financially secured family or even
been allowed to experience the love and nurturing of an emotionally
functioning family.
For
most of us, we often get the impression that life is not fair, that
it has no balance, that it leans towards and fall favour to the
privileged few and since we were given the idea that this is a fact,
it causes us to loose hope in it’s entirety. We silently retire
ourselves to the thought that we will never be able to achieve what
most successful people have because the world closes down all
possibilities of being able to live out our dreams and aspirations.
This result in people living out their remaining days as the same as
how they started.
True
that all of us have big dreams of making it into the world, either we
become successful and earn the respect of others through that or we
stay behind the shadow of our doubts, secluding us from trying out
our hand at becoming successful even in the most smallest possible
way. Life is more than fair, it is actually neutral and does not care
who or what we are. It doesn’t care if you’re rich or poor and
has given us the same opportunities as it had with other people even
way before we came about into our own time. It gives everything a
fair chance of living our lives to the most of what we can make of
it.
The
real problem lies in people, we, us and you, because we fail to see
the opportunities that come to us for the sole reason that we fail to
recognize them. All of experiences that you had gone through in life
has lead you to develop a blockage in your inner mind, the kind of
blockage that clouts your rational thinking, making you make bad and
distasteful decisions in your life that you eventually regret and
suffer in the end. Yes, that’s right, you have been closed off from
your true divine purpose in life which is to fulfil your dreams and
goals in life, to live to the utmost of your heart’s content and to
take hold of your own destiny.
“Great
and Wonderful Things from the People that You Least Expected!”
Believe
it or not, some of the world’s most life changing ideas were
conceptualized by the people that came from small and humbling
beginnings. Does this remind you of anyone you know in particular?
These are the common people, the one’s that have their own dreams
in life that are working very hard just to get their feet out of the
door and into the world, taking on the adversities that they might
find along the way. A lot of people have their own stories of
hardships to tell, some even have bad experiences that they found
difficult to overcome, but they eventually do in the end that it
transformed their life into something different.
